Resam padi

Mengikut resam padi, semakin berisi semakin menunduk.
Yesterday Mr Loba-loba (not a real name) came after a while we had a touch and go policy with him. It is always, afer the meeting and bertandang session, we (my husband and him, I was working) ended up getting annoyed with him.

It is difficult in friendship. You cannot force people to like you. You have to impress and take care of their feeling. But it does not happen in this relationship. We are talking about someone who is at the age of our father, someone who should be wise enough in relationship and life. But it does not work here. Here is the place of the inferior. The place of limited choices, no choice in fact. So both are at the odd angle of relationship and we are not good at it.

I have to come today, because there is meeting with my supervisor. I am tired and sleepy. I have already bought my ticket for tomorrow as well.

Ikutlah resam padi, makin berisi makin menunduk. Ada perkara-perkara yang sensitive dalam persahabatan. Benda-benda yang orang tak nak dengar jangan cerita. Kita hanya faham ini semua bila kita memahami sahabat kita. Semua ini hanya akan terjadi dengan persahabatan yang ikhlas.

Secara amnya orang tidak suka mendengar, berapa banyaknya duit kita, berapa banyaknya harta kita. Bukan semua orang materialistik macam kita. Persahabatan dengan seseorang hanyalah untuk mendengar sihatkah kawan kita, Gembirakah mereka di sana, makan apa? Sihatkah kaum keluarga mereka? Benda-benda seperti ini adalah penting. Soal hati dan perasaan.

Nilai sesebuah persahabatan bukannya mengukur sebanyak mana duit kawan kita kita dapat. Nilai persahabtan adalah meletakkan keikhlasan dalam diri. Seikhlas manakah kita terhadap sahabat kita. Harta dan pangkat tidak ujud. Hanya dengan ini kita akan rasa, bila sahabat kita kesempitan, dia tidak perlu meminta, kerana kita akan sedia memberi sokongan.

Atas batu jemala patek@ 2004-11-29;10:19 a.m.

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