mental drain

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It is friday today. My mom came with a lot of amanat from my dad to brainwash me. She was so defensive about the amanat, and cought me red handed.

My dad is a very single minded person. Whatever he said is a rule and everyone is expected to obey. My mom, being a wife is always in a very difficult situation. She is a free minded person, contradicting to my dad. Making her as someone who is easy for the children to 'tumpang kasih'.

It is O.K if we, the children are not married, like my sisters. We all can always put up with his order. But if you have strangers in the family like menantus, I believe we all have to be open minded. We all have to realise that the conversation is now has to be in two ways. The father has to accept that his words may not be any longer the rule to our life.

Being a single minded person, makes someone becomes a very difficult person to discuss about every thing and anything. As a result, we always had a communication breakdown. He never tries to understand others, but he always questions our credibility to him.

My mom's bombardment to me yesterday, really drained the brain and emotion. We always believe life is too short, without discussion we are never going to be anywhere.

I may be his child, but I will try my best to be the different. Why do we have to go through all the troubles to make ourselves upset when we can have the easy way to make it happy. Why do we have to point out the single small mistake that someone had done, when we can see all the other goods things that the person has done. If you think that the person is not in the same wavelenghts with you, just respect them from a distance. We always believe in 'bermanis mulut'. Bukannya niat membodek, bukannya rugipun.

I believe, everyone has a principle about their life, we just need to respect them. I have to learn that when you are with someone, please do not try to find the bad points in the person, look at the good one only and keep it close to the heart. How do we feel when someone only look at us from the bad points? Tak perlu kita untuk berdendam dan terpendam lama-lama, making like we are the only one is right and others are not allowed to upset you. You are just putting everyone in a very awkward position.

I am going off early today.

Atas batu jemala patek@ 2005-03-18;10:09 a.m.

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